Words and actions being aligned is a good sign of a person’s ability to follow through.
Be aware if a potential partner’s words indicate one thing but their behavior reveals an entirely different agenda. Another important red flag to pay attention to is if the person you’re dating is trying to change you.
He will reveal a few of his indiscretions and weaknesses so you feel safe being open and honest with him.
Are they really listening to what you’re saying or do they consistently seem to be looking for a way to bring the conversation back to themselves? And perhaps the most revealing tell of all is how they treat a waitress or cab driver.
(My mom was a waitress so anyone who was rude to service industry folks, was OUT!
Do not move in because you don’t want to lose him, if he is as sweet as he pretends to be waiting will not be a problem. The biggest number one without fail sign of a narcissist is how they sweep you off your feet at the beginning of the relationship.
They fall in love very quickly, they have never loved anyone like they love you, and you are perfect in their eyes. A narcissist is a con artist and when he finds his “target” he morphs into his “Good 3.